e-male: Yes I feel about the same. I do not derive pleasure from hurting a woman, but I do like being in control in bed. Restraints and blindfolds I’m all for as well as the tickling or caressing of a woman’s skin with the tips of threads. Anything that is stimulating, exciting and pleasurable…i’ll admit that I was curious to see the movie, but I did get bored at times while watching it. I am sure that has to do with the fact that it was geared towards stimulating the female mind.
me: its hard to get them to loosen up but some are bursting at the seams – like an explosive – gotta be careful what you trigger – its hard to release resistance in a world like this – they’ve been shoved into the masculine role for far too long