dude: Hope you are having a good night! Do you run a cam show? Trying to figure out your videos.
me: i used to do cam work from like 2012-14 but not anymore – i just learned some from the counseling i’d do in free chat. mostly that
learning should be fun 🙂
dude: That’s very cool. Sure you learned a lot to help men doing it.
Learning should be fun. Totally agree 🙂
me: it was eye opening – there’s a lot that men hold back in real life compared to being anonymous on cams – so i want to address some of that and help them “come out” so to speak 😉
dude: We need all the help we can get. We do hold back and need to feel safe that we can express ourselves in certain ways sexually.
me: yes, 🙂everyone deserves that – i don’t think men get that consideration as much as women on the whole
dude: Totally agree.
And then we seek it out elsewhere so we can explore what is not safe to explore at home.
me: i do work with women also – i’m not trying to pick on the guys at all – i’m just as direct with the ladies – if not more so because i know what i expect of myself
yeah – you have to remain the pillar
dude: Very cool. That is awesome.
me: or feel that what you need would make you seem like less of one
when that’s not usually the case – i need to wake the women up too
dude: You nailed it!
me: we lose our connection to our primal desires and it can backfire
when we try to become like men but use sex to gain or hold power
when we already know it didn’t work for them and we’re no longer pleasing ourselves and enjoying something like a blow job rather than it being a chore or bargaining chip – same for the guys – that’s perverting the essence and purpose of sex just as much as porn –
that bugs the shit out of me lol we all have a responsibility to the future we create